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Bert and Ernie

Buddies in a Sexualized Culture

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One of the greatest gifts in life is a good friend -- best friends like David and Jonathan, Ruth and Naomi, Achilles and Patroclus, Bert and Ernie.

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Sesame Workshop, the company that produces the kid’s show, “Sesame Street,” announced last week that Bert and Ernie will not be getting married.

Bert and Ernie, two of the show’s Muppets, are best buddies. They live in the same house and sleep in the same room — in separate twin beds. They bicker, they share, they enjoy a bedtime cookie together every night.

They’re such good friends that some assume they must be gay. And one group used an online petition to ask “Sesame Street” to let the truth be known. Bert and Ernie, they say, should come out of the closet and get married. This would, presumably, teach tolerance and respect for differences — something, the petitioners note, “Sesame Street” has tried to do for years.

“Sesame Street” made it clear that Bert and Ernie are puppets and as such, “Do not have a sexual orientation.” Good point, but that’s not the only reason why their getting married was a bad idea.

Writing in US News & World Report, Peter Roff notes that there are things little children do not need to know. “[S]ome stages of life,” he writes, “for example, the years from 2 to 4 [Sesame Street’s demographic] — must be walled off from the passions of adults.”

And blogger Alyssa Rosenberg summed up the biggest objection. “I think it’s actively unhelpful,” she wrote, “to gay and straight men alike to perpetuate the idea that all same-sex roommates, be they puppet or human, must necessarily be a gay couple . . . Such assumptions narrow the aperture of what we understand as heterosexual masculinity in a really strange way.”

Strange indeed. It teaches the ridiculous and deeply destructive idea that same-sex friendships are necessarily sexual. And that’s the last thing we want to teach our children, because it will spell the end of friendship, particularly friendships between young men.

Yet that is precisely the message that’s communicated over and over. It’s the reason gay apologists want to eroticize Bert and Ernie, David and Jonathan, Jesus and the apostle John, and Achilles and Patroclus from Homer’s Iliad.

Some in our culture are apparently incapable of understanding close friendship without sex. And that flies right in the face of a Christian understanding of friendship.

“There is nothing on this earth more to be prized than true friendship,” wrote the great thirteenth-century theologian Thomas Aquinas.

As Christian brothers and sisters we are called to deep friendships with one another. And while we may be more comfortable with the word “fellowship” than “friendship,” Christian relationships marked by love, honesty, selflessness, intensity, and a chaste brotherly or sisterly passion for one another are a powerful witness to the love of God in our largely friendless world.

Bert and Ernie, in spite of differences in personality and temperament — and without any sexual overtones — are the very best of friends. And our kids need that kind of example. They need it from television, parents, and especially the Church in order to see through the hyper-sexualized fog that’s all around them.

Further Reading and Information

Bert and Ernie Getting Married Is a Dumb and Destructive Idea
Peter Roff | U.S. News & World Report| August 12, 2011

Bert and Ernie Shouldn't Get Married
Alyssa Rosenberg | ThinkProgress.org| August 5, 2011

Four Loves
C. S. Lewis | Harvest Books| 1971

Thing You Can Do:
Thank Sesame Workshop for its decision on Bert and Ernie, and promoting true friendship among children.


Comments:

No shame...
The reason gay apologists want to eroticize all male/male relationships is because this so-called gay movement is nothing more than millions of men with their unrestrained lusts being placed on the 'protected species list' by an equally out-of-control government.

This is not a movement at all. It is a mob. Mobs have no conscience and no shame. They have no empathy or respect for the individual, be they adult or child. All they care about is their next serving of 'fresh meat.' Look what our country has unleashed by protecting these Sodomites. I think this pack of wild animals ought to be forced back into the closet where they can feed on each other rather than the society as a whole.
Homosexual Agenda
If you have ever expressed your disagreement with the homosexual lifestyle you have likely had someone respond: “How does what a person does in the privacy of his home hurt you”? Answer: When what is done in the privacy of one’s home is sanctioned by the government it creates a legitimization for that action or lifestyle that inevitably invades the homes of others through the media – newspapers, TV, movies, the internet – through the schools – requiring students, regardless of religious or moral beliefs, to take classes with the purpose of indoctrinating them with the State’s values – through the law – criminalizing thoughts, words, or actions (Hate Crime Laws) the State deems offensive or intolerant. The truth of this statement is evident to all but the willfully blind.

The media has been in the vanguard of legitimizing the homosexual lifestyle. Homosexually has been so mainstreamed that episodes on the Home and Garden TV network regularly feature segments of same-sex couples buying or remodeling homes tucked in between segments of heterosexual couples. The intent is to equate homosexuality with heterosexuality – and it is working. The success of Brokeback Mountain, a 2005 movie about two homosexual cowboys in Wyoming, won three Academy Awards and was a “Best Picture” nominee. Such acclaim powerfully reveals the normalization of the homosexual lifestyle.

So, it was inevitable that advocates for the normalization of the homosexual lifestyle would desire to indoctrinate children with this sin by pressuring a company that is so closely identified with children to feature some of its characters as homosexuals. And while it’s commendable for the folks at Sesame Workshop to have resisted the pressure to so, this isn’t the end. The attack upon traditional morality and ethics, particularly marriage, is being waged by people under the influence of a relentless satanic spirit.

Whether it’s Bert and Ernie or cartoon characters or other fictional characters the homosexual activists will not rest until they infiltrate the minds of our children. So, the Church better stand up and teach/preach the truth concerning this sin. God help us if we don’t!
homosexuality
I so appreciate how Ms. Rosenberg stated how we jump to conclusions and "narrow the aperture of what we understand as heterosexual masculinity." Time and again I see young straight men accused of being gay just because of their personalities, style, interests,especially in the arts etc...not sports inclined. When everyone around you thinks you're gay then you just might start believing it too....much like the old days of calling boys "fags"....but now stated with proper political correctness. Everyone just seems to know who's gay these days.I hear it all the time.
Me neither
You know, in college, I slept in the same room as another man...we bickered, we shared, we probably even eat cookies at some point. Nobody ever asked if we were getting married--they just assumed we were roommates. It's obvious that liberal America doesn't just want "tolerance" of homosexuality, or even just "acceptance", which is worse--they want to promote homosexuality. This is more terrifying because they want non-sexual childrens characters to turn gay for no reason other than promoting an obscure and unpopular agenda. Heck maybe they'll want straight children to become gay, as use the evidence of the fact that they have a same-sex best friend. Weird...