Exodus International is taking a controversial stand. From the Chuck Colson Center for Christian Worldview, I’m John Stonestreet with The Point.
Exodus International, a ministry that reaches out to same-sex-attracted people with the love of Christ, announced last week that it is backing away from reparative therapy. Reparative therapy claims same-sex attracted people can be “cured” of their desires.
Exodus will take heat for this, but they are helping us talk more clearly sexuality. The Scriptures do not promise sinful inclinations will go away, but that in the power of Christ we can live above them and seek better ones. Being “cured” from stealing means we don’t steal, not necessarily that the temptation to steal goes away.
With this change, Exodus helps clarify that we are more than our desires and urges. The lie that same-sex attraction determines homosexual identity victimizes an entire segment of the population. I pray Exodus will continue to proclaim redemption and hope loud and clear — it’s far better than being “cured.” For ThePointRadio.org, I’m John Stonestreet.
Comments:
This is a perfect opportunity for the pro-homosexuality side to take this as a victory. They will now happily shout, "See? We were right! Homosexuality is inborn and cannot ever be changed!
(I am only now coming to this story, so this may already be happening. I'm sure there is also more to all of this than I know at present. This is simply a first reaction to the news.)
I think if we allow either having attractions/ inclinations or not having them to be what determines our identities is the problem. That's what (I think) Exodus is attempting to avoid, and I agree.
I think real freedom is knowing that I am, in Christ, more than my temptations/feelings/inclinations.
I don't know if separating from Reparative Therapy was necessary in order to change peoples perceptions or not. I can appreciate that from a pastoral perspective.
I agree with Alan though that SSA (Same-Sex Attraction) should not be the focus or test of one's faith. Reparative Therapy is very complementary though for continued emotional healing and growth in the proper perspective and context.
I think the Reparative Therapy message is not much different from Exodus: http://peoplecanchange.com/change/whatwemean.php
This is like a Cancer Ministry suddenly deciding to condemn Oncology because they don't have "cure" for all types of cancer. (I'm not comparing the issue to cancer - just an analogy).
Reparative Therapy never claimed to have a "Cure" but it DOES help a lot of people in healing the underlying wounds that drive homosexuality. I personally experienced significant healing from Reparative Therapy and I really wish EVERYONE who struggles with homosexuality would at least give it a chance.
Alan Chambers, president Exodus International