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Most of us are instinctively aware that America is becoming a nation cluttered with narcissistic individuals, and we also know that you couldn’t swing a cat by its tail in Hollywood party filled with celebrities without hitting plenty of Narcissusias.

A forthcoming study about narcissism among celebrities will soon be published in the Journal of Research and Personality by psychiatrist and “Loveline” radio show host Drew Pinsky.

I’ll let you read the information about Dr. Pinsky and the study in Robin Abcarian’s LA Times article, but what interests me is the idea that the word narcissism seems to have lost its pejorative status.

In her article, Abcarian writes, “Researchers distinguish between normal or healthy narcissism and excessive narcissism….” Correct me if I’m wrong, but didn’t we once use different words for a healthy regard of one's self—words like self-assured or self-confident? One builds confidence over time from things like self-discipline, learning, practicing virtue, and faith.

Narcissism is the opposite of self-confidence because it refers to someone who is self-absorbed, conceited, or egocentric, and ultimately empty of things that count. The person is self-indulgent, irrational, boring and unpleasant to be around.

I guess people have stopped reading cautionary fairy tales about narcissistic individuals who gaze at their own reflection and waste away to nothing.


Comments:

Coming soon: "Healthy sociopathy."
Well it's the fault of the French, Rolley. Now if Harald Godwinson had only won at Hastings there would not be so many spelling anomalies. We wouldn't squabble over whether we lived in a mansion or a hut. We would eat deer instead of venison, and hog instead of pork. And instead of having all those stuck up chiviliers galloping arround we would have good, stouthearted carls.
Rolley, Restoring Pejorative Status to Narcissism
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Imrus and Dorcnob in: “Words Are Stupid”

Nimrod: Dorcas, you awake?
Dorcas: No.
Nimrod: You sure?
Dorcas: I’m sure. What’s the matter?
Nimrod: Words are stupid.
Dorcas: Huh?
Nimrod: The English language. It’s stupid.
Dorcas: Why do you say that?
Nimrod: Because it’s true. Think about it. How do you spell ‘door’?
Dorcas: D-o-o-r.
Nimrod: Right. What happens if you add a ‘k’ to the end. How do you pronounce that?
Dorcas: ‘Dork’.
Nimrod: Right. But how did you just spell it?
Dorcas: ‘D-o-o-r-k’.
Nimrod: Right again. So by the rules of English how should you pronounce ‘d-o-o-r-k-n-o-b’?
Dorcas: ‘Dork nob’.
Nimrod: See what I mean?
Dorcas: No. What’s a dork nob?
Nimrod: Honestly? I tremble to think.
Let's see if we can come up with variations on a theme that incorporates this new, um, insight. Version 1 Mirror, mirror on the wall Who's the fairest one of all? (That would be an 'unhealthy' self-image in the new parlance, I guess) Version-2 Mirror, mirror on the wall I'm the fairest on of all! I guess that would be "healthy" narcissism! Version 3 Mirror, mirror on the wall To see my image is all in all! That would be "unhealthy" narcissism! If only mirrors COULD talk!!