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The Brutal Side of Joining Clubs


Initiation rituals to join street or prison gangs are brutal and can be deadly to either the inductee or another chosen victim. But brutality isn't confined to gangs, where violence is the code for life.

In colleges and other institutions of learning, violence or some other type of hazing rituals are routinely initiated against plebs leading to injury or even death. Now lest you think that some interests lend themselves to violence, let me disabuse you. Hazing is found in glee clubs, literary societies, and bands, to name just a few.

In an article by The Chronicles of Education, Eric Hoover asks, "Are students hard-wired for hazing?" Experts maintain that we're "built" for initiation rituals because we are "social animals." This article contains disturbing information about the prevalence of hazing rituals along with the idea that we're built for rituals. Some identify hazing rituals as "an identity builder."

My problem with the article is that the experts are grasping the wrong end of the problem. It would be more helpful to separate the idea of rituals from hazing and stop describing humans with the term "social animal."

We are created as social beings, people who are to be in communion with God and other humans. We're designed to belong to a family, then other groups like a religious order, etc. It's evident that humans need rituals because we have them in everything from religious ceremonies (like baptism) to sports events.

But when we start self-identifying ourselves as animals because of this or any other tendency, we miss an important part of our identity: We are image-bearers of God. This is a distinctly human trait. Animals don't think -- they are driven by instincts. Just watch shows like The Dog Whisperer. Owners and viewers are quickly disabused of the idea that their pet is human. 

It's when original sin rears its ugly head that the problem occurs. If it hurts the body, mind, or spirit, it isn't healthy because God designed us for love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control.

God gave us a commandment: Love Him with our heart, mind, and soul; love our neighbor as ourselves. If you're beating or being beaten to get into this or that group, it is evil, plain and simple, and nothing good will ever come of it.

Comments:

Initiation
My experience in college was amazing. I entered a state university just days after my conversion to Christ and baptism, coming out of, basically, agnosticism. I walked onto the campus in an aura that had engulfed me since the day I had "died to the old and risen anew..." I guess that was my initiation. But I was not alone. I got into a Christian student center, led by a fantastic student minister, and found true fellowship. It was not perfect and neither were the other students there, but our fellowship and love for each other was on a different level and in a different universe from what we witnessed in the fraternity houses that flanked our house on each side and across the street. There was no hazing and no ritual. All were welcome, and all were treated well, from the least to the greatest. God provided for me in an incredible way - also giving me an extremely strong Christian upperclassman as a friend and putting one of the most brilliant Christian apologist women I have ever met as a classmate in my honors philosophy class - where we regularly debated the Lotus-positioned-on-a-desktop (no kidding) professor and the other ten students on Christianity and (then) modern philosophy. She was also one of the members of the Christian student center.

Looking back, it was like a dream. But at the time, I thought it must have been common for Christians in a campus experience. I realize now it was not.

I think some of the fraternities may have had a similar goal when they started, but lost it along the way. Wikipedia mentions Chi Phi as one of the very first fraternities and states this about how it started at Princeton:

“On Christmas Eve in 1824, an association was formed to promote the circulation of correct opinions upon Religion, Morals, Education & excluding Sectarian Theology and party Politics. It was the duty of each member to publish at least once a month in any convenient way some article designed to answer the above object. When at length it disbanded, its religious feature was absorbed and perpetuated by what is known now as the “Philadelphian Society...”

When my son gets ready for college, I pray with all my might for God to grant him an experience something like what I had.
At my Christian college (many years ago), I quit pledging after a student-led devotional in which the leader told us all how it was good for us to suffer (at the hands of upperclassmen) while neglecting the fact that humiliating people is wrong. That and some of the debasing behavior I observed turned me right off.
Sororities
I am sorriest I joined a sorority in college due to the pride and separatist thinking it encouraged in otherwise Christian young women. Later in life I saw these same women teaching Bible studies but talking about the "winners" or "losers" in their classes, just as they had during rush...I think it stunted the ability to see each person as made in the image of God to be "ruling" or "judging" during rush as to who was in and who was out. Not Christian at all.